List! They are daunting and disappointing. I know people that need lists. I know people that embrace lists, even I need a list but I can tell you I don’t want a list!
So this is where does the UN-list comes in. What about “listing all the things that I have done, rather than the things I need to do?
This was a blog I wrote 4 years ago. Still relevant. Still the same UN-list of accomplishments. This is an attitude shift moment so bear with me as we do this together.
“I decide to take the dog for a walk. As I head to the front door, I pass the kitchen counter and realize the cup from last night needs to be put in the dishwasher. It is then that I realize the dishes in the dishwasher are clean so I need to put them away. As I head towards the dishwasher, I notice letters on the counter that I picked up from the post box earlier. I decide to go through the mail before I put the dishes away.
I put my house keys on the counter that I needed to grab because I was taking the dog for a walk, put the junk mail in the garbage and realize it is full and needs to be emptied.
So, I decide to put the bills back on the table and take out the garbage first.
But then I think, since I’m going to be near the post box when I take the dog for a walk anyway, I may as well pay the bills first. I take my cheque book off the table and notice that there is only one cheque left. My extra cheques are in the desk in my study, so I go upstairs to my desk where I find the cup of tea I’d been drinking. I’m going to look for my cheques but first I need to push the tea aside so that I don’t accidentally knock it over. The tea is getting cold, and I decide to make another cup.
As I head back down stairs toward the kitchen with the cold tea, a plant on the living room table catches my eye – the flowers need water. I put the tea-cup on the kitchen table and discover my glasses that I’ve been searching for all morning. I decide I’d better put them back on my desk, but first I’m going to water the flowers.
I put the glasses back down on the kitchen table, fill a container with water and suddenly spot the TV remote control. I must have accidentally brought it downstairs last night and left it on the kitchen table. I realize that tonight when I go to watch TV, I’ll be looking for the remote, but I won’t remember that it’s on the kitchen table, so I decide to put it back where it belongs, but first I’ll water the plant. I pour some water in the pot, but quite a bit of it spills on the table and the floor. So, I put the remote back on the table, get some towels and wipe up the spill. The towel is soiled and needs to be put in the laundry. While I am headed up to the laundry basket I might as well gather the rest of the laundry on the main floor like the kitchen cloth and hand towel in the 1/2 bath. Then, I head up to the laundry trying to remember what I was planning to do.
At the end of the day:
The dog didn’t get walked.
The bills aren’t paid.
There is a cold cup of tea sitting on the kitchen work-surface.
The plants don’t have enough water.
There is still only 1 cheque in my cheque book.
I can’t find the remote.
I can’t find my glasses.
And I don’t remember what I did with the car keys.
Then, when I try to figure out why nothing got done today, I’m really baffled because I know I was busy all bloody day and I’m really tired. I realize this is a serious problem, and I’ll try to get some help for it, but first I’ll check my e-mail…..”
Sound familiar?
So, Here is where the attitude shift kicks in. Let’s try the positive approach, because that is far more….positive….
What I did do today:
I walked 6281 steps according to my iPhone
I got dressed
Had a shower
Made my bed
Played with Sophia
Called two friends
Had coffee with a third and forth friend and managed a few rows on the cuff of a sock.
I made at least 5 people laugh
I laughed
I planned and began a meal for friends for tomorrow evening
I made banana muffins that I was able to collect a few that weren’t burnt because…
I washed the kitchen floor twice – because while baking muffins I knocked over a jar of raspberry jam in the pantry which promptly exploded leaving what looked like a squirrel hit by a 22cal. rifle in its wake.
I sang
I danced
I wrote
I rolled a ball of yarn to begin a Christmas gift
I packaged up the meat in the appropriate portion sizes for the freezer that I bought at COSTCO the night before
I taste sampled the stew for tomorrow night’s meal which btw will be awesome!
I fell asleep in the chair at 9 and was in bed at 10
– Un-listed and Un-accomplished. A day well spent.